“Issues” – This is the title of the email that I have sent today to FIL & MIL.
I am shaking, I am shivering, I am trembling, I am getting fever, I am feeling depressed. I felt like crying as I hit the ‘send’ button but somewhere in one small corner of my heart I am feeling a BIG relief.
In the email, I have written about each & every single issue that has happened in last 5 years after my marriage. All my thoughts that are on this blog about my MIL’s behaviour, I have written in that email. Her negativity, her jealousy, her insecurity, her emotionally manipulative nature, her expectations, her assumptions, EVERYTHING means EVERYTHING. I have mentioned everything in that email without ANY hesitation.
At least they will know what I feel about their behavior. I feel sorry & guilty that I have taken such bold step to protect my self respect, to protect my parent’s respect, to prevent them from hurting PK and my parent’s feelings again. I should have spoken up before but better late than never.
Relationships should help you, not hurt you. I am ready for the outcome whatever it maybe.