Four friends decide to go for girls night out.
Friend A: Jaime Oliver’s restaurant.
Friend B: I was thinking of same restaurant.
Friend C: Food court in shopping mall.
Friend D: I am fine with either but I have one more suggestion, let’s go to this awesome bar at waterfront.
Friend B: We have to make it a fun and memorable night for us, girls.
Friend A: That’s what I am saying. We can’t have fun in a food court in a shopping mall. I would prefer proper restaurant where we can sit & chat for as long as we want. What say??
Friend A, Friend B, Friend D are OK with the bar place.
After few minutes
Friend C: What makes you think we cannot have fun in food court in shopping mall, Friend A ?? I suggested food court come restaurant in the mall & not the food court on ground level. I am OK with bar as well as food court as I am not fussy.
Friend A in shock: I am sorry friend C, I dint mean to hurt you please don’t take it personally.
Friend B: Chill girls.. It’s fixed we will meet at 6.00.
All friends decide the time to meet & place to meet but Friend A is hurt, Friend C always shows her shitty behavior when they have to decide anything. She wants everyone to follow her instructions and praise her all the time for her beauty, for her looks, for her clothes, for her handbag, for her sandals, for her make-up, for her smartness, for her cooking skills and what not. If you will not follow her instructions you will 1) get rude looks when you meet. 2) She will always try to pull you down in some or other way. 3) Friends get together will turn into disastrous night and not fun night.
Friend A has made all the efforts from attending Friend C’s baby shower, inviting her for house-warming, calling her many times, to the extent of falsely praising her for her beauty & cooking skills just to make her happy and to become friends with her but her attitude has not changed. It is very clear that she doesn’t like Friend A at all.
Friend A is confused should she still join the girls for night out or just leave it as her wavelength is not matching with friend C and it will be like being an unwanted addition to group on night out.
Friend B & Friend D are pretending to be neutral, they will not interfere in this matter and they are friends with Friend A & Friend C but they also know Friend C’s attitude just they don’t say anything to her on her face. They want to be on good terms with all friends.
To add some more background, Friend A called Friend C couple of times to ask if they can visit them to see their new baby. Friend C said they are busy first time, they have to go out second time. Friend A bumped into Friend C’s husband while going to work & found out next day they did not went out anywhere!! Again friend A called & asked if they are free, as you will guess friend C said baby has got flu & they are avoiding visitors!! These were her exact words!!
I guess by now, you all know who is Friend A & she really doesn’t want anyone to mess up with her self-respect.